Pleasuretime Social Club  
Rules  
     
These rules are established for the comfort and enjoyment of all our members and are not to be broken. We ask that if you know of someone breaking any of them, please let them know in a gentle but firm manner. They may not be aware of the rule, and a little courtesy goes a long way. If they become rude or otherwise indicate that they cannot or will not comply, please inform your Host or Hostess for their assistance. The situation must be resolved as we are all here to have a good time and enjoy ourselves and others, something we cannot do without some common ground.
The first four rules are common to the lifestyle, and are included here, because they are so important:

  1. "NO" means "NO."
This is probably the foundation of our lifestyle. Very basically, the right to say "yes" is accompanied by the right to say "no." Further explanation is neither nessessary nor required. Don't be afraid to be firm. Be polite, but be firm. Unfortunately, if you are not clear in your statement, you may be giving another person or couple the wrong impression. If you hem-haw around and really don't say "NO," but you imply it, well there are a few guys that don't understand or take "hints" to well. Say it, say "NO."

  1. DISCRETION
This rule is very simple. "What you see here, and hear here, stays here when you leave here!" We don't talk out of school.

  1. NO DRUGS
Obviously, we cannot allow either the use or possession of any controlled substances on premises. We will not debate this issue at all. What you do on your property is your business, don't do it here! Likewise, if you are stoned, ripped, or high; please don't come by. Additionally, although we allow members to bring their own beverages, we do not want or need anyone using alcohol to excess. If you need to alter your mind in order to party then you are in the wrong lifestyle.

  1. NO PROSTITUTION
If you need to pay, or get paid for it, go downtown. You're not a swinger.

  1. NO SMOKING INSIDE THE CLUB
We realize not all of our fellow members are smokers, so we made the club non-smoking, however for those that have a craving, we have built our outdoor patio into an environmentally controlled area complete with benches and a fireplace just for smokers. It has even been said that non-smokers enjoy the atmosphere.

  1. NO FOOD OR DRINK IN THE PARTY ROOMS, OR HOT TUB
Think about it. We really don't need spilled drinks (or broken glass) in the rooms, or the hot tub.

  1. THE HOT TUB
Please don't monkey with the temperature. If it's too hot or too cool, inform the Host or Hostess. It's too easy to screw things up and then no one can enjoy it. And again, please no drinks or food in the hot tub. The last thing we need is somebody's beer, soda or taco chips and salsa ruining the chemical balance of the hot tub or someone sitting on broken glass!

  1. THE PARTY ROOMS
We need to keep the party rooms available for partying. If you are using them to socialize, cuddle or sleep, then you are denying their use by other members. The facilities are here for everyone's use, but they are not unlimited. Let's be polite. Once you are done partying, do the afterglow cuddle and chit-chat back out on the couch. If you need to get some sleep, we have couches, blankets and pillows available. Party rooms are "private" when doors are closed. If the door to a party room is open, then an invitation has been extended for you to come in and watch. If you want to play, ask permission. And since they did let you come in to watch, return the courtesy and please be quiet.

  1. TAKE CARE OF THE FURNITURE
Please use the end tables and coasters for your drinks. No one wants to sit on the wet spot! Additionally, we need to ask that if you are not dressed, please place a towel between your tush and our cushion. Thanks.

  1. CALL AND LET US KNOW YOU ARE COMING
Reservations are required for Singles (For special events it is good for everyone to call ahead), but, by calling a few hours before your arrival, we have a much better idea how many members to prepare for. We can't be good hosts if you don't help.

  1. STAYING OVER
As long as we have space available, we are only too happy to have you stay and party all night. Please remember that if you choose to stay over you are expected to leave by 10:00 a.m. the following morning.

  1. OUTSIDE NOISE
When you are outside, whether it is the parking lot or on the back patio, please be quiet. We may be in the country but voices carry far.

  1. RECORDING DEVICES
Recording devices are prohibited. Exceptions have been made when cleared through the Host or Hostess and closely monitored as to what is being recorded.

Thanks, Bob and Mora